Common themes represented here:
Necrophilia. Men are obsessed with all things related to death and antithetical to life, including torture, horror movies, and torture-porn.
Reversal. We are expected to believe that women are the torturers, where we torture our clothes with harsh detergents, when in reality it is men who torture, and they frequently torture women; we are also asked to believe that women torture our clothes rather than our clothes torturing us, which is the truth of the matter.
See also Fetishize female vulnerability. Women’s clothing is restrictive, painful, expensive, time consuming and fussy, all of which make women physically and economically vulnerable, and left without resources including time, energy and money to further our own interests.