Common themes represented here:
Normalize porn/prostitution. Role playing where the wife is playing the part of a high-priced “escort”. Sexxxay!
PIV-centric narrative — Rape and rape culture. As long as we continue to frame “sex” versus “rape” as an issue of consent, drugs and alcohol — which remove legal capacity to consent — will be evocative of rape. This especially applies to depictions of boozy sex, where sex and drugs and alcohol are explicitly combined.